People constantly suggest they have to balance different values as if I didn’t. It came up in a recent conversation so I shared about it today.
An element I factor in is how my pollution affects others—not just what I know about or wish I contributed, but what I actually contribute. Yet people think I factor in nothing else.
It’s weird to learn people see you as one-dimensional. If they felt others viewed them as they see me, they’d be insulted.